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Missing the Target on Father’s Day

Missing the Target on Father’s Day

After four months with no access to a hair salon, but plenty of access to peanut M&Ms, there is no part of me that is ready for my close-up, Mr. DeMille. Yet, despite not being camera-ready, I recently had the starring role in a COVID comedy of errors. Like many...

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The Past Is (Thankfully) Ever Present

The Past Is (Thankfully) Ever Present

I was born with a rare condition that makes it hard for me to live full-time in the present. As medical professionals have failed to recognize this affliction as an actual thing, I have come up with my own name. I call it congenital nostalgia and I swear I felt its...

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The Day I Learned Spanish–A Cautionary Tale

The Day I Learned Spanish–A Cautionary Tale

I began teaching English as a Second Language at a local college about twenty years ago. In that time, I have learned so much from my students—from the profound, such as different cultural beliefs about the afterlife, to the practical, such as how to count to ten...

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A Close Shave

A Close Shave

My friend called this morning, asking my opinion about a Groupon microblading deal she’d snagged. While she readily acknowledged beauty is pain, she feared this procedure might entail more than she’d bargained for. “Microblading, painful? Pfft! Don’t make me laugh,”...

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Andrea Bocelli, All Is Not Forgiven

Andrea Bocelli, All Is Not Forgiven

If, as they say, timing is everything, then I've got nothing. My timing is notoriously crummy. I routinely jump the gun or show up after it’s been fired, causing me to miss out on everything from those “ground floor” investment opportunities to good bra sales. I put...

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High Horse Hijinks

High Horse Hijinks

As a post-menopausal woman whose bones are leaching calcium, I am mindful of my every step. I hold onto stairway banisters, avoid ladders, and long ago hung up my ice skates, fearful one bad spill could end in bone-breaking calamity. How ironic, then, that I continued...

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Loyalty Overload–My Driving Force

Loyalty Overload–My Driving Force

I’m ridiculous and I know it. I’m going to blame it on my astrological chart because, well, why not?  Born as I was on the very cusp of Leo and Virgo, I’ve been cursed with a double helping of loyalty, an admirable trait, but one that often works against me when...

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No Doggone Good Deed

No Doggone Good Deed

In this season of goodwill, it is ironic that I have learned the painful truth that no good deed goes unpunished. While I was preparing to deliver a load of Toys for Tots, my dog Harper was plotting an act of defiance that culminated in my complete humiliation. Having...

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Say, “Ahh”: Manifesting Run Amok (and a-yuk)

Say, “Ahh”: Manifesting Run Amok (and a-yuk)

I have some startling news to share. It turns out I possess actual superpowers. For years, the metaphysical mojo of the “Law of Attraction” has eluded me, but last week I made magic. Right in front of my bathroom mirror. It was a normal Thursday afternoon. I was...

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